Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts
Showing posts with label dating. Show all posts

Saturday, July 4, 2009

How to Tell if a Guy Likes you - Five Signs He's Interested

How can you tell if a guy likes you or is interested? You noticed him when you were standing and talking with a friend. You think he noticed you, but maybe it was your imagination or just wishful thinking. He looked at you at about the same time you saw him. Your eyes met for just a few seconds, and then you looked away. When you looked back up, he was talking with some other people. Was he watching you as you mingled? Or were you making that up? How can you tell if a guy likes you? Why are guys so hard to read?

Here are five signs that he is interested in you too. If any of the following happens, he is probably trying to get close enough to ask you out:

1. He tells someone

Is he interested? He likes you if he tells a mutual friend that he wants to know more about you, or he asks other people who you are and where you're from. He is trying to act like he's "just asking" but his questions indicate more than a casual interest. And when he tells someone that he finds you attractive, he probably knows that it will get back to you. He's hoping it does.

2. The look

He gives you a look that betrays his calm exterior. Even though he is across the room, "that look" he has says it all. It is sweeping, from your head to your toes, and then his eyes linger on yours. You think you notice the beginning of a tentative smile.

3. The conversation

Does he like you? When he manages to get close enough to you, to ask you questions, he is interested. He appears to be listening and responds to what you say. He's moving in to the ultimate question, which is: "Are you seeing anyone." He would only ask this question if he wanted to date you, and he hopes the answer is "No." Never ever wear a ring in public. When a guy is across the room, he cannot tell which finger it is on and he may assume incorrectly that you are taken. If he doesn't ask you the question of whether or not you are attached, he may ask someone whom you both know.

4. He appears unexpectedly

He likes you a lot if he shows up out of nowhere. He can only do that if he has been asking people about your schedule, or he has been paying attention to where you are going and at what time. His face may turn red when he sees you. A sudden, "Oh, hi," is his way of saying, "I don't want to seem obvious, but I am interested in you." If you feel the same way, do not act shy. Stop and talk to him.

5. EVERYONE likes you

Is he interested? When you are well liked and a happy person, why wouldn't he like you? Of course he does. If you don't have a great life, however, now is your time to start working on one. Take a look at your career possibilities, body image, future, plans, and resources. You may be naturally talented at something, but it won't matter unless you work on your strengths. Misused or unused talents fade away. School and training do not.

These are the five signs that he is interested and he is on the verge of asking you out. Make it easy for him and be friendly. This is where relationships begin.

Do you want to know more secrets about how to attract men? Do you know how to dress, what to say, what to do, and the body language to use when you go out? Do you know the 5 steps to take to meet any guy anywhere? Read on to discover all the secrets to having all the dates you want in How To Attract Men: Secrets Every Woman Should Know

Author: Tonja Weimer

Saturday, June 27, 2009

Dating Women Seeking - To Find A Love Are You Dating a Casual Dater?

You’re a single woman in the dating scene seeking to find a love, but the love you found does not seem to fit quite right. How do you know if you are dating a casual dater? If you are dating a casual dater, how do you let him go and move on to find true love?

There are some signs that a person is a casual dater. One major, and certainly obvious point is that this person cannot commit to you. Even if you have been dating for a while, you can still be dating seeking a casual dater if this person is not ready to commit to the next level in the relationship. Some casual daters only date the same person a few times. Others, date for a longer amount of time, without ever giving a total commitment.

As the victim of the casual dater, this is detrimental to your emotional health and well-being. Sure, you’re not being physically harmed, but your emotional sanity is being shaken to the core. We all need to have people in our lives. We need to be loved. Not all of us readily admit this fact, but we need each other. If you are the type of person who is a commitment-minded dater, you cannot date a casual dater. It may work for a while, but soon you will get frustrated and ask your partner to make a commitment or the casual dater may leave you before it ever gets to that point.

If the casual dater is not allowing you to meet his family or spend quality time with you, you know he is not commitment-minded. You need to consider your own needs at this point and ascertain what you are going to do about it. It will take bravery to confront the casual dater as to his intentions regarding your relationship. You may be scared because then he’ll actually decide to end the relationship and leave you. If that happens, then you are better for it. It will take some time to get passed the hurt and be ready to move on to a new relationship, but you will have learned that you have different wants and needs from a casual dater and you can not be in a relationship with such a person. You deserve to be treated like a princess and not have someone walk all over you and try to get all the benefits of a long-term relationship without paying for the commitment of it. It’s your decision and you will have to live with the choices you make.

When you get the situation figured out and if your casual dater has a change of heart and wants to stay in the relationship, that’s wonderful. If he doesn’t, then take the time to grieve the loss and when you are ready, maybe you can check out www.seekingmarriage.com. This is an online service that helps relationship minded individuals to find a love with another like-minded individual. This is not a casual dating service like casualmingle or online dating service like match or eharmony; www.seekingmarriage.com is a service that thoroughly screens it’s members to give you peace of mind that this is a safe environment to find a love that lasts.

Author: Jack Black @ Articlet